Friday, 19 March 2010

Review: Love Means...No Shame by Andrew Grey

This is a review where I get to eat my words! I've read several Andrew Grey books and stories in the past and had pretty much come to conclusion that whilst I appreciate that he's a well loved author with a large, loyal fan base, his writing just doesn't appeal to me and I wasn't going to read his books any more. Then someone suggested that I read Love Means...No Shame, and so I decided to give the author one more chance. I'm glad I did because I really liked this book.

The story begins with our hero, Geoff, who works as an accountant in Chicago. He spends his days crunching numbers and his nights out on the town picking up anonymous men for one night stands. Then one day he gets a call from his father's partner, Len, to say that his father has died. Geoff then comes back to the place where he was brought up to pick up the running of the farm. It's a sad time for him and Len, but things get easier especially when Geoff finds a young Amish man, Eli, sleeping in his barn and offers him a job. As the two men get to know each other their feelings grow, but Geoff is not certain whether Eli will leave his Amish family and stay with him permanently.

If I was asked to describe this story it one word it would be 'charming'. I was charmed by the whole book, the characters and the plot from start to finish. This was a book about a couple of good guys who find love with each other. There are a few potholes on their road to love, but mainly this was a gentle tale of meeting, falling in love and then settling into a HEA. The characters of Geoff and Eli are perfect for each other. Geoff has spent the last few years living it up in Chicago, sleeping around and looking for the next distraction. When he returns to the farm he is worried that he will find the pace of life dull, but instead settles into a hard working routine of learning about running a business. When Eli comes into his life, the gentle, peaceful man steals his heart with his naivety about the life of a 'white man' and his innocence when it comes to sex. This led to a number of tender and beautiful sex scenes between them, which were emotionally fulfilling for me as a reader, as well as hot.

Another part that I liked a great deal was in Geoff's relationship with Len, his Dad's partner. There's a lot of respect between them and their shared grief over Cliff's death helps both men through that difficult time. Cliff is never relegated to 'the dead guy' and forgotten after the first few page, but rather both Geoff and Len's memories of Cliff are dealt with at different points in the story. This made Cliff just as real as a character as some of the other secondary characters in the book. The emotional intensity of some of the scenes between Len and Geoff brought tears to my eyes on a number of occasions, a sign that Andrew Grey has done his job well.

This was also a book which taught me a little of the Amish community, of which I am woefully ignorant. I liked that it was an important aspect of Eli's personality and that I got to learn much about the way he had been brought up and the expectations placed on him. I also liked that it made him a kind, hard-working man and compared to some of the 'white men' we come across in the book much more civilised. It made the choices that Eli makes later in the story all the more believable for me, when you compare his sweet, gentle way of looking at the world with the cruelty of others.

If there were any niggles in the book, then I thought that maybe the character of Geoff's evil aunt was a little too overdone. Geoff is also rather too good to be true at times, especially for such a young man and I was rather sceptical at the expert way that he managed the expansion of the farm, as well as negotiations with neighbours, given his lack of business experience. Also (and this is really minor) at one point in the book Geoff and Eli go for a ride with one of the farm hands, Joey, and then he is mysteriously forgotten about. None of these niggles were enough to spoil my enjoyment of the book too much.

If you're looking for a sweet, but not overly sweet, story of two nice men who fall in love then you can't go wrong with this book. I enjoyed it a great deal and recommend it, with a grade of 'Excellent', to those who like emotional, romantic stories. This is the first of a series and I'm very much looking forward to reading the other two books which are now on my TBR pile.

Buy this book HERE.

22 comments:

  1. I came across this cover on a blog and I like it so much I got the book - I loved it as well...

    The book lived up to the cover for me....

    Please do read the other two in the series when you get some time..

    I would love to know what you think of them... Love.. Mean Courage is actually a prequel to this one, Len and Geoff's dad story...

    E.H>

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  2. Hi EH
    I'm actually quite nervous about reading Len and Cliff's story. I've heard that it's possibly the best book in the series but I'm not sure how I'll feel about knowing that they will only get 20 years together before Cliff dies.

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  3. Well crap. Blogger ate my post.

    Glad you enjoyed it Jen. I really did like Eli a lot. The others are also very good.

    Cliff and Len's story stops when Geoff is 2ish so even though you know what happened it's certainly not a downer book in any way. You also get a lot more background on the evil aunt. I also liked Joey's story in No Boundaries. All in all it was an enjoyable series for me.

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  4. Hi Tam
    I'm looking forward to Joey's story.

    Len and Cliff's story might stop when Geoff is 2 but I'll still be thinking - but they only get 20 years and then Cliff dies young. That'll be a downer enough for me :).

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  5. Hey Jen..

    I had the same feeling as you and really dragged me feet on reading Len's story - as I know how sad it ends...

    But I thought Grey did a great job of keeping it stable and in the here and now - so my thoughts didn't run away with me thinking "but you are going to die"...

    But I enjoyed it alot...

    And more over you have to read it to catch up on pre-Joey's story and what eventually happens to Len...

    I wont spoil it for you - but there are some good news...

    So take a break and then hop to it woman...

    And not sure but it looks like Len may yet get his story...

    E.H>

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  6. I think I have the first book on my ereader...

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  7. Hi EH

    OK. I'll approach it with an open mind and see how I get on. :)

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  8. Hi Chris
    Then you have no excuse not to read it :).

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  9. I had mixed feelings about reading these books. I rather liked the one he wrote for the Mistletoe Madness series. So maybe I'll check these out. You and I seem to have similar tastes so I'll go forward with that in mind!

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  10. Hi Wren

    You and I seem to have similar tastes so I'll go forward with that in mind!

    Gulp. No pressure then, eh? :)

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  11. OK. Now I'm confused. According to my email, Wren left a comment here earlier, but after replying I see that it's not here.

    How strange.

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  12. And now it's appeared again.

    Blogger is messing with my brain!

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  13. I liked this one did not read book 2 but I did read book 3 again.
    To me it felt there is too much being said (spoiler type of things) in book 1 to make book 2 good. So I passed.

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  14. Hi Ingrid
    I can sympathise, because you do find out quite a lot in the first book which I would assume would constitute a spoiler in the second.

    I'm going to give it a go and see what I think.

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  15. I am not stopping you :)

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  16. Ingrid: Of course you aren't :).

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  17. I'm just in a time-space vortex is all!

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  18. Oh, I do like the sound of this. I love books that just delve into the relationship and don't have extraneous 'issues' (e.g. stalkers). Yes, these issues have their place, but there's something for a book that's all relationship *grin*

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  19. Wren: Ah, that will explain it then :).

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  20. Hi Orannia
    I agree, it's nice to pick up a book which is just about the developing relationship between the heroes with no big misunderstandings, or mysteries to solve, or crazy stalkers :).

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  21. Hi Jen :)

    I felt the same way re: Andrew Grey's books, but I got the impression he's grown as an author - at least in this series, which I really enjoyed. Like you did, I felt that the evil aunt and the way she was always shouted at was a little too much and I kept wondering why Len wasn't co-owner of the farm - I mean, he and Cliff were partners for twenty years... he was such an important part of the business... but anyway, niggles, nothing more.

    It's true that the enojoyment of reading Len and Cliff's story is partly offuscated by what you know will happen, but even if twenty years are not enough, they are still a lot of time. It's a bittersweet book, but lovely.

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  22. Hi Sara

    I wondered about why Len didn't get joint control of the farm too. I came to the conclusion that maybe Cliff and Len had just wanted it that way, even if it was never explicitly said.

    You are right, 20 years is a long time. I'm looking forward to reading their story, but I'm going to give it a couple of weeks first. I find it's often better the leave a gap between books in a series.

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