Thursday, 29 April 2010

For Dot

I was supposed to be writing a review today, but I'm so tired I can barely concentrate.

Part of the reason for this is that I've been at the funeral of hub's grandma this afternoon.  It wasn't an especially sad affair - she was 95, had led a long and fulfilling life, and didn't want us to be sad for her passing - but the heightened emotion and socialising that comes with funerals has completely drained me.

So no review.

Instead, I'm posting up this song which was played at the funeral.  It's a lovely old folk tune by a singer who was very popular during hub's grandma's youth.




RIP, Dottie. I'll miss you.

13 comments:

  1. I am sorry for your loss Jen.

    Funerals can be a weird mixture of sadness and pleasures because you get to see family you won't see otherwise.

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  2. So sorry for your loss.

    Funerals are definitely draining. Hope you're able to rest and recharge. Take care.

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  3. Ingrid
    Thanks.

    You are right. Some of the people I saw today I haven't seen since my wedding, 15 years ago.

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  4. Hi Lily
    Thanks.

    I'm having an early night so hopefully I'll be back up to speed tomorrow.

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  5. I'm so sorry Jen. Hugs to you and your family and hope you have a good night's rest.

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  6. I'm sorry for your family's loss. :(

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  7. Hugs to you and your family, Jen.

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  8. I'm deeply sorry for your family's loss Jenre.

    Warmest Regards
    L

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  9. A very touching tribute, Jen. Oh yes, funerals can be exhausting. Hope you and hub sleep well and have sweet dreams, knowing Dottie is at peace.

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  10. Sending warm thoughts your way, Jen.

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  11. Thanks, everyone, for your kind words. I did sleep better last night.

    One thing that was interesting about the funeral was it was run by a member of the Humanist society. Dot wasn't religious but believed in being the best human being you could possibly be. I have to admit that attending a funeral service with no mention of God, and no words about the afterlife was strange, but the service was still comforting in that it was a celebration of Dot's life and that, although she is gone, her legacy still lives on in her daughter, grandchildren and great-grandchildren.

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  12. Hey Jen..

    I am sorry to hear of your families loss..

    Sending hugzzz your way and hopefully some sunshine..

    E.H>

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  13. Hi EH

    No sunshine here. It's raining today :). I do feel sunnier in myself though, so that's good.

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