Saturday, 15 October 2011
Three is the Magic Number
Today this blog is three years old - if you don't count the six month hiatus last year. Yay!
I was thinking about this the other day, especially in relation to how long I have been reading and reviewing m/m books. Three years doesn't seem a very long time, but it is in a genre as newish as m/m romance. I've sat by and watched publishers like DSP go from releasing one book and one short a week to the howevermany a week they produce now. I've seen a number of small publishers (or not so small if you count Carina Press) start up with strong m/m romance releases. I've seen new blogs/review sites start (one of them my own Brief Encounters Reviews) and other old favourites close down - I still mourn Rainbow Reviews.
More than that though I feel like a bit of an old woman when it comes to the genre. There were some m/m only review and commentary blogs before mine, such as the sadly missed Emmy or Teddy Pig, Kassa and Jessewave which are still going strong (although believe it or not Jessewave's site is only 9 months older than mine!) and of course the lovely Lisabea at Nose in a Book who was the main influence for me setting up a blog in the first place. Nowadays there are lots of sites which review m/m books and it's great to see such a huge interest in the genre. It makes me happy to be able to share thoughts, compare likes and dislikes and to get to know such a great, enthusiastic bunch of people.
Which leads me to the main reason I keep blogging and reviewing: The great friendships I've made during those three years. I never would have thought when I started blogging that I would travel half way across the globe to stay with people I've never even seen in real life. It was great to put names to faces and to find that, even though we'd never even spoken to each other, we could still all get along and have good fun together. The same goes for all the lovely people I met in Milton Keynes in July. And there are others too, who I may never meet, but who I consider a friend.
So I'm raising a glass of decent red wine to my blog today, not because of the endless hours I've spent typing up posts and reading books to review, but because of the friends I've made and will continue to keep even if I ever have to close the doors again.
Cheers!
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Happy Happy Birthday! Happy Happy Birthday!
ReplyDeletehot cha cha cha
Thanks, Teddy Pig :).
ReplyDeleteI was saddened to read all the stuff about AMP on your blog today. Yet another once great publisher floundering because of the hubris of the owner.
Congratulations on your blog-birthday. And well done for keeping it going for so long!
ReplyDeleteCongratulations, Jen! May you have many more happy years to come! :D
ReplyDeleteHappy Birthday Jen!
ReplyDeleteOn to lots more than 3 more years!
Happy Anniversary Jen!!!!!! 3 years. Seems long and yet not so long. Wish you were here in New Orleans with us to celebrate today, but we shall have a toast or 10 in your honour tonight. :-)
ReplyDeleteHave a super weekend.
I am just sad Jen that I got suckered into thinking they were an honest hard working ePublisher and recommending for the years I did.
ReplyDeleteI feel that I am in some small way involved. It sucks!
Thanks, Becky. It hasn't seemed like such a long time, it's gone so quickly!
ReplyDeleteJamie: Thank you! Not sure how many years I'll be able to keep it up but I'll try :).
Thanks, Zahra. Hmmm, three more years sounds like a scary prospect!
ReplyDeleteTam; Thank you my dear! Yes, have a couple of drinks on me tonight - you lucky people :)
You weren't the only one, Teddy Pig. AMP was one of my go-to pubs when I first started reading m/m and I own a number of their books. It's such a shame that the actions of the owner have destroyed the trust that readers and authors had in the site.
ReplyDeleteHappy blog birthday, Jen! Three years is a very long time in our mm niche of the blogosphere. :)
ReplyDeleteHappy blogday! Long may you continue!
ReplyDeleteAnd you have done a superb job, dear lady, by being thoughtful and articulate and supportive. I'm more than happy to clink glasses with you!
ReplyDeleteHappy birthday! Clink! xxx
ReplyDeleteCongrats to a great m/m reviewer/blogger/reader. You have helped to increase my m/m library greatly.
ReplyDeleteThanks for all your great work
Hi Val
ReplyDeleteThank you and yes, three years does seem a long time when new sites and blogs are starting all the time.
Hi Joanna
ReplyDeleteThank you!
Hi KZ
*clinks back*
and thank you for the kind words. *blush*
Hi Anne
ReplyDeleteThank you! *clinks back*
Hi Amanda
I'm always happy to pass on recommendations for good books :). I hope they've been worth the money!
Happy Bloggyversary, Jen!
ReplyDeleteI'm always so very glad that we found each other online and we have been missing you hugely here in NOLA.
No clinking here, though, this morning. There are a few seedy people who would be a wee bit tetchy at the thought of more alcohol.
Surprisingly I'm not one of them. LOL.
3 years? Time really does fly when we are all having fun. Congratulations on 3 amazing years of posting. I look forward to many, many more.
ReplyDeleteThank you, Kris :). Our online friendship is very dear to me and it's hard to believe that without blogging we never would have met.
ReplyDeleteNo clinking here, though, this morning. There are a few seedy people who would be a wee bit tetchy at the thought of more alcohol.
Glad you all had fun, even if you are nearly all a little worse for wear today! I wish I could have been with you. Maybe next year :).
Hi Chrissy
ReplyDeleteYes, it hardly seems like any time since I sent you that email telling you how much I enjoyed your story in the Make Me a Match anthology!
I shall certainly try to keep on with the blogging :).
Happy anniversary!!!! Time flies when you're having fun, they say, and your lovely blog is the most perfect example:).
ReplyDeleteLol, I read some comments on twitter earlier and indeed I don;t think they need another drink. Except Kris that is.
ReplyDeleteCongrats on the blog Jen. I was so glad when you decided to continue again!
Late to the party, but better late than never.
ReplyDeleteHave a happy blogiversary :D
Sorry for a few days late and a dollar short but Happy Anniversary! 3 years is an incredible accomplishment, especially so when you take into account the continued success and excellence that you put out. It's no small feat!
ReplyDeleteWe definitely missed you in NOLA and you were mentioned constantly (I think the girls would have liked to carry around a cardboard cut out they could introduce as Jenre).
Thank you for the oh so thoughtful mention, now I'm feeling like an old bitty hehe. 3 yrs is huge and you deserve every accolade that comes your way. May it be another 3 yrs of wonderful friends, books, and fun.
Clare: Thank you my dear! Time flies too quickly sometimes I think!
ReplyDeleteHi Ingrid
Thank you!
I was so glad when you decided to continue again!
I'm glad too. I was surprised at how lost I felt without it during the six months I shut down
Hi Eva
ReplyDeleteThank you :D.
Hi Kassa
My productivity has taken somewhat of a dive these last few months but I do try to stay fairly active here.
How strange to be so popular at GRL and yet absent :).
We're both old ladies. I'l crack open the sweet sherry, shall I? ;)
How about some Brandy? I hear it's super sweet hehe.
ReplyDeleteBelated happy blogiversary, Jen! We had fun in NOLA, but we would've had MORE fun if you'd been there. :)
ReplyDeleteKassa: No thanks, I can't stand the stuff. Perhaps I'll stick to my whisky :).
ReplyDeleteChris: Thank you! I wish I'd been with you too but I'm glad you all had fun.